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You’ve made it to my corner of the interweb! I’m Tasheka the one behind Lifewithtasheka, a place where you can feel seen heard and little less alone. As a stay at home mom to four tiny humans I truly get having to balance it all while still staying true to myself and my husband. You are seen here !

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Hey Sis 🤎
Living a relatable life, loving on my babies and tryna stay sane.
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✨You are a great mom✨

Sometimes I get super emotional thinking about my children’s life and how much I love them and hope that I am doing right by them!

I wont say that I didn’t have a good mom because on paper I did. She was always there physically but not emotionally or mentally and that had left a huge toll on me as an adult. There are so many parts of me that aren’t healed and my inner child sometimes feels it.

My goal is to try and be the parent I wish I had and sometimes it’s hard because the blueprint on how to be I never received.

So I am here to tell you mama even if you weren’t taught the mechanics of being a mom you are a great one. I see you and I know how hard it is to push past your own hurt to make sure we aren’t hurting our babies.

YOU CAN DO IT! 🤎

#innerchildhealing #healingjourney #healingisaprocess #childhoodtrauma #healyoursoul #forgiven #goodmom #motherhoodjourney #honestmothering #rawmotherhood #emotionalhealing

Hey Sis! Welcome to @lifewithtasheka, where I p

Hey Sis!

Welcome to @lifewithtasheka, where I post a ton about my life as a mother of four, being married, my struggle with mental health, my growth as a woman, breaking generational curses, and healing from childhood trauma.

But every now and again I like to toss up a post that tells you some things about me you probably didn’t know, besides the fact that I cannot stand
Avocados! 🤢 Ready?

I absolutely love watching baking shows and day dreaming of being a world renowned Bakery taking the universe by storm. Right now, I’m really into reading erotic romance and I love nothing more than binge eat fried hand pies in the evening while reading.

I’m super pumped to meet you and if you’ve been here for a min WHAT UP! 🤎

✨Drop a comment below telling me something about YOU!✨

#mylife❤️ #welcometomylife #aboutme #nicetomeetyou #newfriends #communitybuilder #momfriends #momoffour #bookstagram #avidreader

I may have a problem… 🍪 #crumblcookie #cook

I may have a problem… 🍪

#crumblcookie #cookieaddict #sweettoothforever #dessertgram #funnymoms #sensualseduction #temptingfood #dietssuck #eatthefood

✨Be the light that shines in the darkness✨ Ev

✨Be the light that shines in the darkness✨

Even if that darkness is you sis.

I’m gonna be real, some days my mind becomes pretty fricken dark. No matter how hard I try it’s dark.

How I pull myself out is by being what I need.

Realizing that the light I need is me and not others or things.

So be your own light sis.🫂

I see you shining. ✨

Drop ✨✨✨ below if you ready to shine for you !

#bethelightinthedarkness #beyourownhero #selflovejourney

Ive decided to romanticize all the small parts of

Ive decided to romanticize all the small parts of my life.

I feel that we are so caught up on the what we don’t have we forget to appreciate what we do.

This is me paying homage to myself and my beautiful imperfect life🤎

#romanticizeyourlife #findhappiness #selflovejourney #lovemylife

🎃🍁Pumpkins rolling in 9|26 @someonesmother.c

🎃🍁Pumpkins rolling in 9|26 @someonesmother.co 🍁🎃

#pumpkinobsessed #fallishere #stickershop #canglass #relaunch #smallbusinessowner #smallshopsdreambig #pumpkinspiceseason #someonesmother #mamaowned #blackownedandoperated #womanownedandoperated

This is the season I’m pushing myself to be more

This is the season I’m pushing myself to be more selfish.

I’m doing more of what will bring me joy and peace.

Let me know what you do to bring yourself happiness 🤎

✨Stress free dinner ideas✨ Here is an easy di

✨Stress free dinner ideas✨

Here is an easy dinner idea the whole fam will love !

—Chili Cheese Dog Bake—

INGREDIENTS:

✔️A pack of bun length hotdog
✔️Hot dog buns
✔️ Can of chili (I used no bean)
✔️Fine shredded cheese of choice

Directions:
•preheat oven to 350
•put hot dog bun in a 9x12 baking dish
•add hot dogs to buns
•put can of chili on the hot dogs
•add cheese
•cover and bake for 15-20 mins

Boom ya done sis! Easy meal. I pair it with fries or tots !

#easydinnerideas #yummydinner #easymealideas #kidfriendlymeals #chilidogs #ovenmeals #recipesofinstagram #dinnerrecipes #momswhocook #easycookingathome

✨LOADING A BAD BISH ERA✨ Prepare to be sick o

✨LOADING A BAD BISH ERA✨

Prepare to be sick of me! Cause I am here to MF PLAY!

I Loc’d my hair y’all!

Ayee let’s getty it’s LITTY !

I did the two strand mini twist method to get these bad boys going and I’m hyped to be on this journey.

🚨 If you have locs please give y’all girl all the tips and tricks please! 🚨

#locstylesforwomen #locjourneybegins #starterlocs #naturalhairjourney #twostrandtwistlocs #twostrandtwist

It’s giving… it’s time for you season.

It’s giving.. watch me glow up

It’s giving finally putting you first !

Let this season be you sis, not them. YOU 👸🏾 🤎

#glowupseason #livingyourbestlife #winningseason #momover30 #healthyme #mentallystrong #generationalhealing #therapyworks

✨READ THIS✨ Do NOT stop until you are living

✨READ THIS✨

Do NOT stop until you are living a life you LOVE!

Let me say that again 🗣

DO NOT STOP UNTIL YOU ARE LIVING A LIFE YOU LOVE!

Life is way too short sis. Love now. Smile now. Work now. Burn bridges now.

Scream, cry, laugh, or what ever it is you gotta do. But for all that is beautiful DO NOT STOP LIVING 🤎

#livelifefully #dontgiveuponyourself #buildyourlife

We spend too much time chasing after the perfectio

We spend too much time chasing after the perfection of our bodies sis.

Not coming for the girls who pride on it but here me out. Who the hell told us we had to, better yet why the hell are we listening?

You are fine as hell no matter where you are ! If you want to be better you do that go you and not because this warped ass sexist society is telling us we have to look a certain way.

So this I post for you in all my flaws. My scarred skin, my stretch marks, protruding belly, flabby arms to tell you I am SEXY!

And you know what? So are you!

Bra &Panties set : @adoreme

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#loveyourcurves #loveyourskin #lovewhoyouare #bodypositivity #sexybbw #sexywomen #besexybeyou

Live your life for you sis. I lived many years eq

Live your life for you sis.

I lived many years equating my happiness to my ability to make those around me happy. In doing this I have been left unsatisfied with myself.

I promise I can blame so much on the trauma I’ve endured during my 32 years on my parents, siblings, people I thought were friends, and past romantic relationships. However ultimately it is down to me how I keep pushing through this life.

Don’t allow what has happened to you determine what will become of you!

You are beautiful, you are safe, you are free, you don’t need to be like them , you just need to be who you want to be.

If no one told you today sis. I love you 🤎

Listen….👂🏾 ..no one said that you had to b

Listen….👂🏾 ..no one said that you had to be on 24/7 for anyone.

Yes that even means your children and your significant other too.

This summer I really practiced at taking part of the day for 30 minutes to myself. Idc what it was as long as it was something that rejuvenated my soul.

Here is a list of some of those things to get you started:
-Reading
-Shower
-Shaving
-Watching tv
-Sitting in silence
-Dancing to music

✨Comment below, I would love to know what you, my beauties,do to get your time ! ✨

Now go ignore EVERYTHING for 30 minutes!

Woooo sis 😤 I can have a discussion about this

Woooo sis 😤

I can have a discussion about this topic and NEVER get bored.

Let’s start here:
If no one told you today YOU ARE A GOOD ASS MOTHER! 👏🏾👏🏾
As a collective we as mothers need to STOP allowing the people who only catch a second of our lives, the people who aren’t doing the work of being our children’s mother, and all those perfect opinionated people that struggle just as we do, come and make us doubt ourselves.

Okay? Okay! 👌🏾

Let me ask you this.
Do you love your babies?
Do you provide for them?
Protect them?
Shelter them?
Show them affection?
Make sure they are clothed and fed?
Worry about them?

If you answered any of those yes then congratulations 🎉 sis you’re a PHENOMENAL MOM! As long as you show up and show out for them babes then sis I applaud you.

Now go put them kids to bed so you can have some quiet time. You’ve earned and deserve it! 🤎

✨Comment below “I’m a good ass mom!” And praise yourself ✨

Dear current Tasheka, I’ve been slacking on you

Dear current Tasheka,

I’ve been slacking on you for 32 years now. I’m sorry. The time has come that I release the powerhouse you are.
Love,
Your future self. 🤎

Note to you my friends,

It’s time to start betting on you. Forget what others may think. Forget what your family and friends may think. Release that person who was meant to be happy in whole not crippled by society’s standards or expectations!

Love,
Your good sis 🤎

What started with $900 in savings, four friends, a

What started with $900 in savings, four friends, and a deep fryer has made it’s way to out happily full bellies.

Hubby and I was given the chance to come to the soft opening of @daveshotchicken newest location in Waco and I am telling y’all they DID NOT disappoint! I’m legit still dreaming about it.

The spicy, the juiciest chicken breast, the design is all out of this world! I am HERE FOR it!

Y’all ever been?

It is my birthday today yall🎉🤎 Normally I w

It is my birthday today yall🎉🤎

Normally I would be sad ( thanks childhood trauma) however this year I’m focused on the joy life has for me right now.

Welcome to Chapter 32: Happiness 🤎✨

#birthdaygirl #itsmybirthday🎉 #happybirthdaytome🎂 #celebratinglife #chapter32

The Grants took on @disney last week and it truly

The Grants took on @disney last week and it truly was the most magical thing I’ve ever got to experience.

Not because of Disney itself but because seeing my children and my sister’s eyes light up the way it did, taking everything in was EVERYTHING!

I didn’t take a bunch of content because I was super immersed in the time I had with them!!

I’ll be back Magic Kingdom 🤎

Have you ever been to Disney? ✨

#waltdisneyworld #disneyparks #magickingdom #familyvacations #familyroadtrip #orlandoflorida

You just need to say pool one time and I’m there

You just need to say pool one time and I’m there! 🏊🏾🌊🛟👙

The Grants are on Vacation Insta loves!

Let’s see what we can get into this week !

Can you guess where we are?

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